Hi, I’m Pamela Lund
I spent most of my life working my ass off, chasing a moving goal line and doing what made everyone else happy. I plowed through college in three years, still graduating with honors, and had a full-time job before I could legally have a beer.
By the time I turned 30 I’d built a successful company, got out of debt, met a great guy, and had a life that looked ideal on social media but I still felt like something was missing. I tried going back to college for a 2nd degree, countless hobbies, and starting a new business but nothing stuck.
I felt like nothing I did was never enough. Like I was never enough. I was working more than ever, doing everything I was expected to do professionally and personally, and making everyone else happy but I was anxious and exhausted. I didn’t want to feel this way at 40.
So I approached the problem like I approached everything. I. Did. It. All. I spent five years reading books, attending workshops, and trying methods that promised more than they could deliver.
Through that process I realized that rather than just doing more I needed to figure out what would make me happy and how to do that. I realized that I was already enough. I needed to focus on what mattered to me and let the rest go so I did and the most amazing thing happened. When I stopped being so busy – when I stopped being in constant motion – I had the time, energy, and space to reconnect with myself.
I learned to say no at the right times and in the right way.
I learned how to slow down and appreciate stillness.
I learned to listen to my anxiety and stop numbing.
I was able to discover my passion for helping people who felt the same way I did…my friends, neighbors, and sister, my favorite checker at the grocery store, and strangers on the internet. Once I started talking about my epiphany I discovered that we were all feeling the same way and I was compelled to help. I can’t speak to everyone individually so I started writing articles online to reach as many people as possible and here we are.
You can subscribe to my email list using the form on the right and enroll in my flagship course The Life Manifesto. I look forward to getting to know you.